I call shenanigans. And here’s why. I have anxiety and depression. It’s hard for me to give 100 percent when I can barely get out of bed. Hubs puts in his 100. When I’m up, I’m giving my all. Some times, so is my husband. He has his days too. That’s when I put in my share. It’s not all or nothing. Give or take. It’s balance. I do laundry. He does dishes. I clean the bathroom. He makes dinner. Some days we let the kids (teens) make dinner while we get ourselves together. Life isn’t black or white. All me all him all us all the time. And that’s why we work. He lifts me up. I lift him up. Back and forth. Because in the end it works for us.